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13 : Resilience, Toughness and Competitiveness: Ingredients of Leadership Explored with Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell

December 11, 2023 No Hesitations Podcast
13 : Resilience, Toughness and Competitiveness: Ingredients of Leadership Explored with Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell
No Hesitations Restaurant Leadership Podcast : The show that teaches restaurant owners and operators how to be world class leaders without wasting time and energy.
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No Hesitations Restaurant Leadership Podcast : The show that teaches restaurant owners and operators how to be world class leaders without wasting time and energy.
13 : Resilience, Toughness and Competitiveness: Ingredients of Leadership Explored with Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell
Dec 11, 2023
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Learn about leadership from the perspective of competitive sports.

Brace yourself for a conversation that blends leadership, the beauty of competitive sports, and the essence of true camaraderie. We're joined by Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell, two ultimate Frisbee maestros who have managed to keep their 20-year-old friendship intact amidst their competitive spirit. Their intriguing story highlights how a shared love for a sport can not only nourish friendship but also foster remarkable leadership skills.

We’re thrilled to have guests, Ryan and Andrew give us a fresh insight into leadership development. They illuminate their journey, discussing various inspirations and emphasizing curiosity and hard work as driving forces behind successful leaders.

In line with this, we probe into the role of personal growth and curiosity in leadership, underscoring its significance in decision-making, maintaining relationships, and accountability.

In the final chapter, we delve deeper into the realms of resilience, toughness, and competitiveness with Andrew and Ryan. Drawn from personal experiences, the duo shares how these elements have played a pivotal role in their leadership journey.

It's all about how hard love for competitiveness or the bond forged through shared experiences can steer your leadership path. Get set for a captivating exploration of leadership, competitiveness, and camaraderie that will leave you with inspiring insights.

Don't miss out on this one!

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Learn about leadership from the perspective of competitive sports.

Brace yourself for a conversation that blends leadership, the beauty of competitive sports, and the essence of true camaraderie. We're joined by Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell, two ultimate Frisbee maestros who have managed to keep their 20-year-old friendship intact amidst their competitive spirit. Their intriguing story highlights how a shared love for a sport can not only nourish friendship but also foster remarkable leadership skills.

We’re thrilled to have guests, Ryan and Andrew give us a fresh insight into leadership development. They illuminate their journey, discussing various inspirations and emphasizing curiosity and hard work as driving forces behind successful leaders.

In line with this, we probe into the role of personal growth and curiosity in leadership, underscoring its significance in decision-making, maintaining relationships, and accountability.

In the final chapter, we delve deeper into the realms of resilience, toughness, and competitiveness with Andrew and Ryan. Drawn from personal experiences, the duo shares how these elements have played a pivotal role in their leadership journey.

It's all about how hard love for competitiveness or the bond forged through shared experiences can steer your leadership path. Get set for a captivating exploration of leadership, competitiveness, and camaraderie that will leave you with inspiring insights.

Don't miss out on this one!

More from Christin:

Subscribe to the No Hesitations Podcast here

Connect with Christin on Linkedin 

To learn about other ways I support the hospitality industry, visit ChristinMarvin.com

More from Christin:

Curious about one-on-one coaching or leadership workshops? Click this link to schedule a 15 minute strategy session.

Nick Spinelli:

Hello and welcome to the no Hesitations podcast. We are your co-hosts.

Christin Marvin:

Christin Marvin with Solutions by Christin.

Nick Spinelli:

And Nick Spinelli, that's me.

Christin Marvin:

We talk about all things leadership, successes, challenges and every topic in between but the goal of helping you become a better leader.

Nick Spinelli:

So join the conversation each week, wherever you find your podcasts, because there's no time like the present to listen in and level up. Christin, we have another doubleheader this morning. Who have we got?

Christin Marvin:

Doubleheader. We're going to have some fun today. So we have Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell. Welcome to the podcast. We're so excited to have you. This is going to be a very fun, energetic, competitive podcast, we feel. Today Andrew and Ryan have been Do I call you world? Are you world champion?

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

It depends on who you're talking to. You're talking to me. Yeah, it works.

Christin Marvin:

World champion is an ultimate Frisbee. So we're going to learn a little bit more about their Frisbee backgrounds and the two of them. I've been fortunate enough to know Andrew and work with him for over 10 years, and through Andrew I met Ryan, who has been my coach for about a year and a half, which has been incredible. So before we dive into these, into their incredible sports histories here and legacies, let's talk a little bit more about who they are. So Andrew Manget spent two decades in the restaurant industry and has since been on a journey to bring his expertise in leadership, service and hospitality to other industries. Today he is the chief operating officer at Harness Energy, who provides data measurement resources to wind and solar developers across the US and world markets. He makes his home in Denver with his wife and two children and loves to partake in everything that the Colorado outdoors has to offer.

Christin Marvin:

Ryan Farrell has been a human resources leader in the nonprofit and craft beer space for over 15 years. He is currently the vice president of staff development at the Brewers Association, the national nonprofit for craft breweries, and he's a solo solo I always struggle with that word with a coaching and facilitation practice. He's a proud husband and father to two young children, and he has at least two more ultimate Frisbee gold medals than Andrew. So the gloves are off, nick. Where are we going today? What do we want to talk about?

Nick Spinelli:

I need to know why you're so competitive with each other, because at first glance you know it's not immediately apparent in those, those intros, how you know each other and where the rivalry began. But I need to know because, if that's true, ryan, that you have two more medals. It's all the more impressive because, before we logged on, andrew actually came in this morning and had all his medals on. Ryan didn't even need to show them off. He was like I am secure, I am confident, I know that I'm better. I need to know where it all started, drew, you want to do it.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

Sure, I can kick this off here and first of all I'll say thank you for having us on, super excited to be here and chat with you all about leadership, and I would also note that there is no need to provoke any competitiveness, kristen, between Ryan and I.

Nick Spinelli:

You don't have to stoke a fire in any way.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

It's already been provoked.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

So yeah, ryan and I go back 20 plus years. At this point we were both undergrad at William and Mary, the College of William and Mary in Virginia, and we both played on the Ultimate Frisbee team at William and Mary and I don't think either of us planned on having a 20 plus year career playing Ultimate Frisbee. But we were both freshmen and I think we had different athletic backgrounds coming into college and maybe weren't looking for a college athletics experience and ended up playing this kind of weird small club sport and for me anyway, I ended up falling in love with Ultimate Frisbee and the competitiveness and the spirit of it and there's a really amazing community of Ultimate Frisbee players all over the country and across the world. So it's been a really big part of my life since 2000 when I started in college and Ryan I'll let you jump in here, but we actually separately ended up in Colorado after college, years later, and ended up playing on the same club Ultimate Frisbee team, which is sort of the elite level of Ultimate Frisbee and for almost 10 years we played in some capacity, led that team, captained in different aspects, so we have a long history of playing together. We played together more than that. So it is sort of funny for us to be competitive in that. But we played a lot of games, then do a lot of practices together, had a lot of ups and downs, heartbreak and a couple of medals together. So, yeah, that's my brief history.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

Yeah, it's funny, Drew, when I think about our joking competitiveness. It makes me think of and I have three brothers. It makes me think of my brothers. It's like I'm thinking about when you're a kid and somebody picks on your brother. You'll stand up for them and be like only I get to do that. I'm the only one who gets to fuck with my brother. So there's this ferocity that is actually the foundation of it is love and history. And, yeah, just like brothers, my brothers and I have traveled separate paths and now two of my three brothers actually live here in Colorado after following their own journeys. And it's the same with Andrew and I. We somehow ended up being back together and working closely together, staying close.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

And, drew, I don't know if this is how you think of it, but at William and Mary we were close, but we work way closer now. I never thought that we would end up here being 40 years old and be as tight as we are. No, I agreed. Yeah, we certainly. I don't think we really hung out much in college. Yeah, you know, we were in different friend groups, for sure outside of the Frisbee, you know tournaments and such. Yeah, I never got the invite to the fraternity so I guess it was. It just wasn't meant to be at that time and I never got the invite to, like, play Madden 98,.

Nick Spinelli:

I'll make it to your dorm.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

It's never too late, it's never too late.

Nick Spinelli:

We could change both of those things. We have time, you said you're only 40.

Christin Marvin:

I think it's too late. I think it's too late.

Nick Spinelli:

I mean, that certainly explains how you know each other, then. So thank you for that. All right, I figure maybe we could just dig a little bit deeper into each of your backgrounds, because both of your titles COO and VP of staff development. I think there's a lot to unpack with both of those. So, andrew, maybe we can start with you. Chief Operating Officer, Harness Energy. I would imagine you've had a long path up to this point. Data measurement resources to wind and solar developers. Has that always been the industry that you've worked in since college, or is that a relatively recent thing for you?

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

No, it's new for me. The industry is. You know, I spent two decades in restaurants. I'm dishwasher to GM Regional Manager. I have essentially worked in every and any position in a restaurant over those 20 years. That's how Christin and I met. She and I worked really closely actually at two different concepts here in Denver with the Bannato concepts, and then it snooze was there for seven years almost.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

So you know, I have been on this really fun journey of you know restaurant hospitality operations. And then I got to a point, just before the pandemic, where I was really looking for a change and thought that with the you know kind of operational skill set, leadership skill set you know I'd been running big teams, doing lots of leadership development, mentorship, coaching and, with the hospitality side of restaurants really as the core piece of what I love, I really thought that there was a way for me to branch out of restaurants but still carry that sort of focus on hospitality, taking care of people. You know, both the people that work for you and the people that you're serving in whatever industry that you're in. So I've been on a little bit of a journey since then in 2019.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

I've spent some time in the medical world, spent some time in the finance world, have done some consulting small business consulting on my own and just the beginning of this year landed at Harness in the COO role and it has been a really fun, unique fit for me and able to really lean into you know organization and structuring and building a company. You know Harness has been around for 15 years but has really seen very, very fast growth over the last two or three years as wind and solar has increasingly taken off, the amount of investment money that's there. You know the cost of building these projects has come down so it makes more sense for some of these larger companies to build. So Harness has grown really quickly and I've been able to come in and lean into you know building small business skills, organization, structure and then bringing that leadership and culture piece as well to really help this company get to a good place so that we can continue to scale. So, yeah, long, weird journey.

Nick Spinelli:

Long, long and circuitous path.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

Yeah, but I think the common theme for me right. I sort of have this belief that it doesn't matter what industry you're in or what product you're selling or what service you're selling. If you can provide a space for your people to be happy and feel successful and able to grow and learn, you can really do a lot and go far. And I think that applies to every industry and every business, regardless of what that widget is that you're selling.

Nick Spinelli:

Yeah, yeah, yeah. I have a few questions in mind and we can come back to those, but I want to pivot over to Ryan for a second. Ryan human resources leader, vp of staff development how much of that is HR Like what we would think of, or what a lay person would traditionally think of, as like HR functions right, and how much of that truly is like you are just coaching and working with people to bring out their best every day?

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

Yeah, I love that question, Nick. If HR was just those nuts and bolts plus being the fun police right like the most people's conceptual words, not mine, the circumstances under which they would be in a conversation with HR? It's like that induces dread.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

And right from the beginning, when I carved my way into HR, you know the way I did that was. You know I just kept raising my hand for things. So somebody needs to do the payroll great, I'll do it. Somebody needs to do the benefits? Great, I'll do it. Our performance evaluations are all over the map. Somebody needs to get these in line in order? Great, I'll do it. So in the beginning I just kept saying yes to things and then, as time passed, I used or leveraged that knowledge of what was going on in the nuts and bolts to really start to have those more meaningful coaching conversations with our staff. And you know I love Andrew and I have talked about his messages. You probably see it on his whiteboard today. It's be curious.

Nick Spinelli:

Yes, there's another one, an even smaller print, back there, but that one I don't have my Bionic Eyes on this morning. Unfortunately I can't see that one.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

Right, but that'd be curious piece. I think. Always, even before I would have used those words, I connected with that idea of curiosity, and there's so much space, I think, in every workplace for the leaders in that place to shift from an attachment to their ideas about the way things should be happening or the way employees should be behaving or performing, into a curiosity about what's going on with them, what's driving them, why they're doing what they're doing. And it's in that curious space that all things HR get way, way more interesting, and it's why I've been doing it for 15 years.

Nick Spinelli:

Yeah, we used to say all the time in the graduate program at T-Ton Science Schools. Well, these are the questions we would ask our students. What do you notice? What do you wonder? Yeah, beautiful, and if you do those two things, a lot of things will follow. For that right, I'm curious too, if we flip this around now and look more at where you've been practicing the last 15 years. I see the Brewers Association now, and it sounds like you've been in the craft beer space for a while. Was that true in other states outside of Colorado as well? Because I'm wondering, just at a high level, what your experience working in craft beer has been like if you have been state hopping and doing that in a couple different places.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

Yeah, so all my right, I'm 40,. I've been at the Brewers Association. It'll be 17 years in January. Wow, yeah, cool, yeah, so I was 23 years old. I took the job, 20 hours a week, data entry, in the finance department, making 14 bucks an hour, because it was like a 40% raise over what I was getting.

Nick Spinelli:

The 14 bucks an hour in 2006, or whatever would have been that?

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

I don't know what it is now, but it was a big deal to me at the time. You know I was painting houses, I was babysitting, I was doing anything I could to make my way out here in Colorado and stay after coming from New York. But all my HR and craft beer experience has taken place in Colorado, with the caveat that the Brewers Association is a national nonprofit right. So we serve all of the roughly 9,500 breweries throughout the country.

Nick Spinelli:

Totally. Yeah, andrew, go ahead. Oh, cool, all right, I'm doing the thing. When I was a teacher on Zoom, where even the slightest change in someone's body language I'm like, yes, you, you have a question. Here's a question for the two of you. You both work in leadership development I'm wondering you don't have to give me the first leader who inspired you in your life, but if you had the name, even just a few of the people that really helped to shape you on your own journey, especially when you were younger, I think Chris, and I would love to hear a little bit about that.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

Yeah, I could jump in there. Great question. You know, I think one of the my easy answer here is my dad. He, you know he also worked in restaurants. He, you know he spent 50 years working in restaurants across many different you know he did small restaurants to large institutional food service. He worked for Sodexo and Marriott. He did a lot of really interesting things in the restaurant and hospitality space as well.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

And you know, I think for me early on, you know, and I don't know, you know, as I get older and explore some of these, you know childhood memories, you know his work ethic and you know he was the old school restaurant guy. You know he worked a ton, you know, probably at the expense of his family in some cases, and you know I think there was. You know I took a lot from that and you know has certainly over the years used that as a driver of. You know hard work, work ethic, making sure you show up integrity. You know a lot of those kind of core values that I have, I think, for better or worse, came from watching him, you know, grind in the restaurant industry in the 80s and 90s and make a name for him so that you know he's a pretty cool, pretty cool old guy. He's still consulting and, you know, has sort of leveraged his decades of experience there to retire and keep consulting.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

You know he's the guy that I'm like. He's going to work until he can anymore. You know he just he has that love for it and that drive. So, yeah, he's a big one for me. And I could keep going, but I don't know if you want to jump in, right, yeah. Yeah, I mean my mom and dad were the two that jumped in my mind, and for different reasons. You know, what I saw in my dad was hard work, consistency. He had like a little bit of that. He was a administrator in the local county government child support, enforcement, child protective services you know, sort of like a county bureaucrat, and you know that's a union environment and that was actually the first place that I worked at a college.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

I went and did a year there and the my perception of that environment when I was there was there, was it was cushy or safe, like you could. The threshold for getting in trouble for not being productive enough was like very, very low. So what I saw in my dad was like what I now understand to be a discretionary effort. He could have gotten away with cruising and instead he brought this genuine humanity and care to what he did, I think, just because he believed it was the right thing to do. You know, and now, as a people leader, there was a time when I thought everyone should do that. And now what I've sort of come to understand at a deeper level is, first of all, that should is a dirty word and Can imply some judgment in a very sneaky kind of yeah, yeah there's there's judgment inherent in it.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

And to bring it back to that concept of curiosity you know to, to think in a should manner, I think, is wishing things to be a different way than they really are. And when you, instead of thinking, well, this person should be doing x, y or z, or should be this productive, the more profitable Way in is to get curious with them, about what's going on with them that's getting in the way From them being as productive as as they can be as an individual. So, yeah, I think about my dad's discretionary effort. And then I think about my mom. My mom was a grinder man, like you know. She's taking care of four kids. She's getting us out of the house every day and then she would go in and she does the same thing. Now she's still working.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

My dad's retired, but like same thing, not like what I saw in my mom's, what I now, as a people leader and you know somebody who does a lot of hiring and recruiting I Think about her motor and I look for that motor in everybody that we hire. I want to see a like Somebody who's gonna raise their hand when they have finished all of the work that was on their plate and say, hey, I can do more. And my mom was somebody who always made her bones by. She was not gonna sit idle at work, she was gonna. Her motor was always running and and she was gonna empty the tank and then make us dinner at night and put us to bed and get us out the door the next morning.

Nick Spinelli:

Kristen, I have another question, but I want to kick it to you for a moment. If you have one brewing on your end?

Christin Marvin:

No go, keep going, it's great cool.

Nick Spinelli:

We've talked a lot about being curious. What are you two Feeling curious about right now and by right now I mean it could be today, it could be in the last week, it could be this month this year. What are you feeling curious about and what have you been exploring lately in all your various hats and rolls?

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

Yeah, good one. I want to think about it a little bit. Drew with something popping in your mind, yeah, yeah.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

I'll jump in. I think for me, you know my, I Think that for me, you know, I've always been you know the the learner. You know that that's kind of that's one of my default right is I'm I'm always Wanting to learn. I always feel this need to personally challenge myself and to grow, and I think you know the, like Ryan said a few minutes ago I don't know that, I've always called it curiosity. You know that it's sort of that's a newer Way for me to think about it as well. But I, you know I think I am in this place. You know it's my first job as a COO, you know, first time sort of with this level of responsibility and and you know, I think I probably put a lot of pressure on myself to perform and to show up and to make sure I'm being the leader that I Want to be for myself and for my team probably more for the people around me is where that pressure comes from.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

So you know I I've gotten really curious in the last six months just about sort of my personal values and and getting clear on you know what, what is it actually what? What are those things that Are driving me and what gives me energy and and where do I feel like I'm doing the most valuable work that I, you know I feel rewarded, right? I I think, with you know the, the work Ethic and the energy that I put into any job and any role I've ever had. I'm I'm always confident that I'm making an impact. So I've really tried to get curious about what fills up my bucket and you know what. What are the things? You know? There's a thousand things that I can do every day, and really understanding more about what, what drives Me and what makes me feel good and feel rewarded at the end of the day, has been a, has been a fun exploration For me over the last little last months. Yeah, I love that, andrew, I'm thinking about. The one of the things I've been curious about is what kind of impact I can have next as a leader With a focus on Shifting, helping people see the, the shift that's available to them from leader holding direct report accountable into Coaching up direct report to have a sense of ownership and responsibility for the things that that they want to accomplish.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

There's this sort of like push pull nature to that and I think a lot of leaders think, you know, and maybe 10 or 15 years ago, the paradigm was Set clear expectations, hold accountable to expectations, and there's a certain Like that strikes me as a one I get it and super effective in certain certain situations. So it's good and I think there's a shift to great that's available for leaders when they can come into and form agreements with the people that they're working with, where Both sides, both parties in the in the agreement, are going to have personal internal responsibility or a personal internal commitment to getting to that outcome and rather than the leader needing to pull it out of the person inside the team, out of the person, and say, hey, what are you doing? We said you're gonna do this. Now it's almost a punitive vibe. When leaders are able to come into agreement with their people, there's a shift into ownership and responsibility.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

I think that's that's really powerful and even, as I'm saying, as I'm thinking about my kids, my kids are six and four, and and that shift is is like, oh my, it's like ripe fruit with children like you, just you can when you, when it shifts from a thing that my parents want me to do and I must obey, from that into it's my thing, that sense of like kids want to have control over their own environment. Right like there's this, especially at six and four, there's like this desire for autonomy and control. And this is a way of when you come into agreements with your kids and actually make requests of them, that they can say yes to their sense of ownership spirals and they have you've upgraded their own capacity to be invested in the outcome, because it's their own outcome.

Christin Marvin:

So this whole thing is like right revolutionary to me.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

I.

Christin Marvin:

Yeah, I love that, Ryan, because I love to think about. What you're bringing up for me right now is really that on the opposite side of accountability is empowerment.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

Yeah, beautiful.

Christin Marvin:

And the best leaders. I think understand what you said. You set the expectations and then you let your team go find their own way and get curious about how to achieve those results. I think we've all worked for leaders that set the expectations and then chase you around about those expectations for updates constantly and that's exhausting.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

Yes, right, so that will start your growth. Yeah, that good to great shift is from expectations and accountability. This doesn't mean no expectations from it. It's just about pairing your own expectations, being clear about your expectations, pairing it with what the employee or what the kid or whoever it is you're in relationship with. I mean this can go peer to peer too. I mean this is an amazing tool in relationship. In marriage and intimate relationships, both sides become equal creators or co-creators of what they need, what they want for themselves and what they need from the other party, and so both get to share and make explicit those hidden, implicit expectations. Come together and expectations may explicit from both sides. Equals agreement and you can come into an agreement with each other. That requires a yes from both sides, and then you're like you're sort of co-committed and off and running.

Nick Spinelli:

Yeah, you're touching on abolitionist thinking there and this idea that if we start to move away from compliance, space thinking and hierarchy and more toward a world where the relationship is the source of accountability. I'm thinking about a nonprofit actually here in Tucson that made headlines recently when they had some of their animals stolen from their farm and the details aren't super relevant Flowers and bullets. Please donate to support them if you're listening to this. But, more to the point, in this news release where they discussed this staff from the farm, I thought it was really remarkable when the founders said, hey, we're not interested in pressing charges, Like, we really just want to, like find the people who are responsible for this and like bring them back into the fold and have a conversation and really understand what happened, what led them to do this, and without saying it in as many words, like how could we rehabilitate them in the community? Right, because justice means that they're not going to be disappeared somewhere. Or, like punished in some way. I think justice for the community would be coming to some sense of understanding and then bringing those people back into the fold which tells them that they have value. Right, like, of course, a crime was committed. This wasn't good. But even thinking about this in an organizational or HR context, I think it goes a long way.

Nick Spinelli:

When, to your point, ryan, early on in your career, when you were like, yeah, there was a certain degree of like, safety and space to make mistakes, cool, that will inevitably happen. And when it does, what happens? When you know that you still have value even after that, all transpires right. When someone says, hey, let's move through this and find a way to get better, right, that is such a shift from the way that I even remember my first job going where you know. Again, it was all compliance based. I was ordering products for a dairy cooler in Cleveland, ohio, and if I missed even one of those facings, the GM was down the next morning counting every single missing product on our shelves and then he would write in big red letters how many empty spacings we had on the white board in our back room. I mean, yeah, it was motivating. It's clearly still with you.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

It's clearly yeah, you made it some time ago. Oh yeah, yeah.

Nick Spinelli:

Oh, it will always be with me. 76.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

That was what I remember on that date you got to do better. 76 is too many.

Nick Spinelli:

I know 76. Nick, we can work through that if you need.

Nick Spinelli:

Actually we had 4% shrink in that department for about a month and a half. That was pretty bad, but you know we worked through it. It's all good. Speaking of learning, here's my last question for the two of you, and then I'll kick it back to Kristen. What have you learned from each other? You've known each other a long time, I'm wondering. You know you don't have to boil it down to one thing, but I would just love to hear something that you have learned from the other person in your decades of both friendship and working together as colleagues.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

Yeah, I'll go first Andrew. Nick, I love what's happening here because it, like Andrew said, we've known each other for 20 years, maybe drew 22 years now and your question, or maybe just us being together in this format, conjured something that I've never thought of with Andrew before and Drew I won't give the gory details of this memory, oh please do, but there was a time early in our time in Colorado, Andrew was very down and I don't even really know why, but you came to my house you know what I'm talking about. Yeah, I think so, go on and he needed a place to stay for a couple of days. You know he had his own place, but he needed to get away and he just stayed, I think, slept on our couch for a couple of nights. One of the things now deeper you know, in our relationship that I think I've learned from you, andrew, and appreciate and love is your. I guess it's like the words that are coming up for me are toughness, resilience, like we've both taken some tough punches in these years that we've known each other and there's, like man, when you're down. You know I'm someone who has suffered from depression and had a period of what they call suicidal ideations. You know where you're starting to maybe think about taking your own life. And what I've seen and learned from Andrew is you could be real low and there's a certain like undefeatability of the human spirit and when you stick with it, when you hang in there, when you're resourceful, lean on your friends, lean on the people in your life, you can bounce back man even when it doesn't feel like you can. That's great. Thanks, yeah. Yeah, there was, there was after a four day trip to Vegas, I believe. So you can fill in the blanks. That's a regret on that trip. Well, thank you for saying that, ryan, that's great.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

You know, and I think, yeah, with you know the years of friendship and you know playing competitive right, like, I think that the sharing that competitive piece too that we've had over the years in the Frisbee field, like you know, I, you know, I, I think that the, the, the, the, the. We didn't really touch on it much, but Ryan is one of the hardest competitors that I've ever known, just from a Like when, when he sets his mind to something right, he's all in and Right. Like he, he will do everything to Go down that path and to, you know, not just Be excellent physically, you know, physically fit but right, understand the strategy and tactics and, and you know, thinking through, you know, and I'm sort of thinking about this and you know sport context, but I think this applies to Everything that I see Ryan do and I, you know, I think that I've always been Impressed by how, how deep you go into, like when you set your mind to something. You're going all in right, there's, there's not like I'm gonna go do it a little bit, right, I'm you're not gonna go play club soccer.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

A little bit like you're, you're gonna, you're, you're gonna go and you're gonna play, and you're gonna show up and you know it's what you're doing right now and sort of you know, I've always appreciated, respected and sort of like tried to do that myself when it's like, if I'm gonna, if I'm gonna do something, like let's go all the way and and let's be the best that I can be, and it doesn't mean that you have to be the best at something, but you're gonna be the best that you can be at that thing. So, yeah, I think that's that's something that I've, you know, seen you do in so many different ways over the years. That's always fun to watch. Yeah, really touching, thank you. And I Played a game and I'm my my over 40 wreck league soccer league last night.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

Picture myself talking shit to people and banging into bodies and screaming like a maniac. So it's that's what I'm doing right now. Thank you.

Nick Spinelli:

Thank you both, Kristen.

Christin Marvin:

Yeah thank you. I love that we never know where these podcasts are gonna go, and love that we've You've both shared this common thing of theme of curiosity, which is just so important for leaders to be successful and to find balance. And you know you said it earlier, ryan, but in in this competitiveness that the two of you have together, you know the foundation is really is deep love. So love that you shared that with us today. And Again, like you know, ryan, I'm gonna throw it to you here. I know Andrew's got a tattoo of his Frisbee team. What do you got?

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

Is that? What's my type? What tattoos do I have? Question. Yeah, well, so I can't get level. Yeah, it's fine I so. I have two tattoos. One of them, I got one I was 18. It's a big cut from the cover of catch 22. So it's Yo sarin. It's like a red, red dancing man. I got that with a nerd, a Nerd friend of mine. We would geek out on books and both ended up being English majors. He's an English literature educator now. And then the other one is tattoo I got with Team USA worlds teammate named George. We got the same tattoo up on our thigh and it's a circle and one dot inside and one dot outside and Sort of represents the, the friendship and unity that we formed During our time on the team together.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

And there's one of us on the field and the other one supporting From the sideline. You know, it was sort of the the way that we became really close.

Christin Marvin:

That's awesome. I love it. Love to have you both back on and talk a little bit more about your Frisbee journey and how you've seen kind of leadership show up and Every position on the field for sure down the road. But can't thank you enough for being here. Where, if listeners want to connect with you, where can they find you?

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

Yeah, you can get me at Ryan at feral groupco. Yeah, you can find me on LinkedIn, andrew Mangan, or email is Andrew at mangan codecom.

Christin Marvin:

Awesome. Well, I look forward to connecting with you both very soon. I'm also Looks like slotted to be back in town here in the next couple months, so I'm excited to get videos from your children of ice cream orders and then reviews on how the ice cream went, because those, those, make my heart very happy. So thank you so much again for for being here. Be sure to listen in each week on Spotify and Apple podcasts, and be sure to follow Kristen Marvin and Nick Spinelli on LinkedIn and subscribe to the solutions by Kristen newsletter. We'll talk to y'all next week. Thanks so much. Thanks for eggs.

Andrew Mangan and Ryan Farrell:

Bye-bye.

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